HIndrance To success- Faulty Memory.

ITS HOW WE REMEMBER THE PAST HAS A GREAT IMPACT ON OUR PRESENT AND FUTURE.

Yesterday i when for tennis with my cg mates i was talking to a quite new member of our cg. i and her somehow click well enough that we start talking about relationships about human character about temper and more... i remember telling her to see things in a positive manner even how bad it is.. her swift words are like easily said then done in a lively manner. she didn't attend chruch yesterday so the sermon i think would be good for her. after she said that i was like erm... thats why you need God's help..but for someone who is new didn't really understand what God can do.. miracles do happen but for some they say its too long to wait...but then only way to move on is to throw that negative thoughts away the past is the past and by looking at the good than our faith will increase and forward is where we are heading.

as i look back in to the sermon notes i realise it is all within ourselves as human we tend to always want to find the easy way out for example when a good friend of yours some how get on your nerves at the heat of the moment you decided not to ever talk to the person ever again.. (but then when you see the person you will remember what he had done to you and you will meditate on it and that relationship is broken...)
that would be easy than forgiving the person and face them again

like me, there was once a friend of mine we were some how close in the sense i told him alot about my life and i thought he was a good friend so i trusted him, as both are christains the thought of betrayal or lies didn't really can to mind. He suddenlly got close to a girl which cause alot of rumours as a friend of cause i would ask and clearify things so as to protect him in the sense stand up for him. after asking like 5 times the reply was totally opposite then the truth that was later on disclosure by himself which to me it made to point knowing ready i was like.... ok... bye... i hang up...i was angry aready but his later on sms made me even more angry he misunderstood that i like him .. you get it he thought i like like him.... i was like wao.... damn... goodness i like him as a friend or a bro... not that way... that time i totally made up my mind to disown such a dishonest friend . Then after some thought i decided to forgive him but it was hard.. i when to the gathering totally ignoring him... i no i m capable of not talking to the person forever but i choose not too... i try looking back trying to see the good things in him. that made us friends. but trust here is lost.

The recent observation brought me more disapointed in another person... though i m much younger than them but i don't get how they dun seem to know what they are doing.
i heard about many changes in the world on saturday i and 2 of my good friends were discussing about people who are into those of the same sex. the world is somehow different its not that i m classifying them or i dislike them is just that their choices and thinking makes me curious (maybe i shall do a survery on them) but then not curious enough to be one...
Its just now even younger kids are much influence. people tend to look at their lives as negative as possible in my opinion causing them to find of something that doesn't hurt them for aexample dissapointment in guys may cause a gal to get drawn into the complications of the lesbian world( no offence ya)

what you remember of a person caused you to react differently.
i am now friends with them even they had did me wrong i remember i smsed him saying that i forgive him. Its not easy as my character is not that forgiving but i choose too so it all starts in the mind.
storeroom is like our memory ,garbage in mind effects what you do or say. that we put in our mind there is a need to keep it checked. to make sure our memory is healthy . we should practice a selective memory where we choose to remember or forget certain incident.

we need to re-evaluate our negative experiences from God's perspective. talking about lies and betrayal Jesus been through it more then me. i can imagine how painful it is too be killed , beaten by, spit by the people that he so loved. and yet asking God to forgive them. Wao.... God is merciful.
Thats why we have to develop an attitude of gratitude where it helps us to look at every situation positively.Thank God for the good or the bad everyday.