When you love someone,
what is the level of secureness a girl should feel?
is a very undefined standard to set as everygirl requires
different level of secureness...
After what i wrote in the last post i was just thinking, should i understand such a behaviour?
my conclusion is so that it's still a no!!!
For a girl i usually see this stereotypical types of girl in a Boy Girl Relationship.
where they are extremely happy with their position
that they just loses themselves
their lives revolves around their guy,
and they don't seem to love themselves...
some people say when your in love your happy and you tend to eat more
due to that...
If it is true but to what extend??
Is it until they totally give up on looking good?
or staying happy?
for pampering themselves?
as people say when you look and feel good , your much happier and confident.
CONFIDENT girls isn't that what guys want?
what i am thinking is when your self esteem is low isn't stressful being you?
I know you love your boyfriend and he says he doesn't mind of how you look, its the heart that matters...
seriously????? the physical attraction doesn't matter???
i am not saying its all about the looks .. what i am saying that women / gf/wives /ladies
should love themselves...
to dress up well, put on make up, excerise, pursue your dreams..
live more... although you include your dude but one musn't put
everything on him..
let him serve you not you being a maid
as if things don't work out in love your world won't came crashing down..
I am not pointing fingers neither i am talking about someone..
it's just my thought.
as i have been through it... i tried it once which i find it siliy but i have learned alot from it.
So now....
when i am in a relationship i think it has to be about each other.
maintaining one's beauty and looks is essential as
when our confident then you won't be insecure..
as to prevent yourself from being a B****
when your confident your life would be much meaningful
you will have more time for your family and friends...
In my 3 check list:
1) put god 1st then pursue my dreams and studiest,
2) put time on effort is ALL TYPES of relationship and
3) LOVE myself....
WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU.
what is the level of secureness a girl should feel?
is a very undefined standard to set as everygirl requires
different level of secureness...
After what i wrote in the last post i was just thinking, should i understand such a behaviour?
my conclusion is so that it's still a no!!!
For a girl i usually see this stereotypical types of girl in a Boy Girl Relationship.
where they are extremely happy with their position
that they just loses themselves
their lives revolves around their guy,
and they don't seem to love themselves...
some people say when your in love your happy and you tend to eat more
due to that...
If it is true but to what extend??
Is it until they totally give up on looking good?or staying happy?
for pampering themselves?
as people say when you look and feel good , your much happier and confident.
CONFIDENT girls isn't that what guys want?
what i am thinking is when your self esteem is low isn't stressful being you?
I know you love your boyfriend and he says he doesn't mind of how you look, its the heart that matters...
seriously????? the physical attraction doesn't matter???
i am not saying its all about the looks .. what i am saying that women / gf/wives /ladies
should love themselves...
to dress up well, put on make up, excerise, pursue your dreams..
live more... although you include your dude but one musn't put
everything on him..
let him serve you not you being a maid
as if things don't work out in love your world won't came crashing down..
I am not pointing fingers neither i am talking about someone..
it's just my thought.
as i have been through it... i tried it once which i find it siliy but i have learned alot from it.
So now....
when i am in a relationship i think it has to be about each other.
maintaining one's beauty and looks is essential as
when our confident then you won't be insecure..
as to prevent yourself from being a B****
when your confident your life would be much meaningful
you will have more time for your family and friends...
In my 3 check list:
1) put god 1st then pursue my dreams and studiest,
2) put time on effort is ALL TYPES of relationship and
3) LOVE myself....
WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF PEOPLE WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU.
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